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Mon: Once Upon A Time, Revenge, Witches of East End Tue: Sleepy Hollow, Wed: The Originals, Supernatural, Awkward, New Girl Thu: The Tomorrow People, American Horror Story, Arrow, Super Fun Night, Fri: The Vampire Diaries, The Crazy Ones, Once Upon a Time in Wonderland, Reign Sat: Atlantis, The Legend of Korra, Dracula, The Carrie Diaries

Striving to Be Spontaneous

You are an adventurer: 

Action-oriented, curious, outgoing, and often technically gifted, you live for new experiences. You are drawn to risk-taking and aren’t afraid to fail. Generally restless, you tend to job-hop or choose a field that offers constant novelty. If you had to name your favorite place, it might be the center of attention—you’re a born entertainer, and can easily adapt to any audience. While you collect many acquaintances, you’re less likely to develop deep, committed relationships. 

What to watch out for:  

When you can’t satisfy your thirst for variety and excitement, you may see yourself as trapped, which can lead to impulsive and self-destructive behavior—drinking, drugs, breaking off relationships, ditching financial responsibilities. Try to find value in some traditions; if you learn to appreciate repetitive experiences, you won’t always feel the urge to bust free. And when a new opportunity thrills you, keep in mind that just because it sounds exciting, that doesn’t mean it’s good for you. 

Looking ahead: 

Life will have meaning for you as long as you feel stimulated. That might mean chasing twisters, exploring the polar ice caps, getting a degree in dance therapy, or becoming an astronaut. It might also mean reading new books, attending workshops, or letting yourself get swept up in an intoxicating romance. As a risk-lover with a lot of energy, you’re a natural entrepreneur. You’ll be happiest if you change jobs every so often and travel extensively. Movement is what keeps you going.

Striving to Help: 7 

Striving to Be Recognized: 9 

Striving to Be Creative: 10

Striving to Be Spontaneous: 12

Striving to Be Knowledgeable: 10

Striving to Be Secure: 8

Striving to Be In Control: 9

http://www.oprah.com/spirit/Who-Are-You-Meant-to-Be-Self-Assessment-Quiz

What I'll use to Grow My Kids (If I adopt)/Shopping list

Movies

Teen Movies:

• 10 Things I Hate About You
• Easy A
• She's the Man
• A Walk To Remember
• The Girl Next Door
• Cruel Intentions
• Wild Child
• Angus, Thongs and a Perfect Snogging
• Mean Girls
• John Tucker Must Die
• It's a Boy/Girl Thing
• Raise Your Voice
• A Cinderella Story
• She's All That
• Whatever It Takes
• Triple Dog
• Charlie Bartlett
• Prom Wars
• Now You See It
• Detention
• Keith
• Sky High
• ...

Other:

• Divergent
• Ella Enchanted
• I am Number Four
• Pride & Prejudice
• Rubinrot
• Red Riding Hood (2011)
• The Mortal Instruments: City of Bones
• Byzantium
• Sweet Home Alabama
• If Only
• The Great Gatsby
• The Host
• (The Twilight Saga) - Maybe
• Grown Ups 1&2
• Zoom
• Beautiful Creatures
• A Knight's Tale
• 21 (2008)
• Fright Night
• The Craft
• When Harry Decides to Marry
• Harry Potter 1-7
• Percy Jackson & the Olympians
• Now You See Me
• Bachelorette
• The Amazing Spider-Man & Spider-Man
• Marvel Superhero Movies
• Superman (all)
• Snow White and the Huntsman
• Cabin in the Woods
• Triangle
• Project X
• The Hunger Games
• Underworld (all)
• Sherlock Holmes 1&2
• My Super Psycho Sweet 16
• National Treasure 1&2 (So they would steal the Declaration of Independence (JK) )
• Solomon Kane
• Transformers 1&2
• The Golden Compass
• V For Vendetta
• Van Helsing
• Cirque du Freak (all)
• Wanted
• Alice in Wonderland (2010)
• Prince of Persia
• X-Men (all)
• The Internship (2013)
• The Lone Ranger (2013)
• Lord of the Rings
• The Shawshank Redemption
• Untouchable (2011)
• Stardust
• ...

Sweet Feels/Romance:

• P.S. I Love You
• If Only
• Perfect Strangers
• Wedding Date 
• 27 Dresses
• Remember Me
• A Princess For Christmas
• Flipped
• The Perks of Being A Wallflower
• ...

Animation:

• All Barbie
• (Almost) All Disney
• Anastasia
• Hotel Transylvania 
• Astro Boy
• ...

Disney

• Tangled
• Brave
• Aladdin
• Atlantis: The Lost Empire
• ...

Musicals/With Music:

• Pitch Perfect
• Moulin Rouge!
• Across the Universe

Books:

• The ones that have been made into movies and are mentioned above :)
• The Perks of Being A Wallflower
• If I Stay 1&2 (If more then those too)
• Vampire Academy series (Soon to be a movie :D)
• Summer trilogy - Jenny Han
• Maze Runner ( Soon to be movie :D)
• Angelfall - Susan Ee
• Wicked Lovely - Melissa Marr
• Shadow and Bone - Leigh Bardugo
• Warm Bodies - Isaac Marion
• The Inheritance Cycle - Christopher Paolini
• The Secret Circle - L.J. Smith
• Hex Hall - Rachel Hawkins
• Study - Maria V. Snyder
• The Secrets of the Immortal Nicholas Flamel - Michael Scott
• ...

TV- Shows:

• Smallville
• Doctor Who
• Merlin
• Atlantis
• Sherlock
• Teen Wolf
• The Vampire Diaries
• Danny Phantom
• Charmed
• Ghost Whisperer
• The Nine Live of Chloe King
• Supernatural
• ...

DEFFINETLEY NO:

• Happy Feet

PS. This list will grow on for as long as I shall live and people create stories. So I this list is of 4.Oct.2013.

I Hear You (essay vol 2)

I hear you

 Almost everybody has normal functioning ears. But depending on our attention capacity do we actually hear what other people and things say. Some people like listening to natural sounds and some people like listening to man-made sounds.  

In the movie “August Rush” Evan listens to everything and through what he’s heard tries to communicate with his parents. I like listening to nature too. Listening to the nature helps to relax me. My favorite sounds are at night, when most people have gone to bed and I can hear the wind outside the window.

Listening to people is tiring. Most of the time I can’t tell whether the person is telling the truth or just trying to tell an interesting story. Because of this often, I don’t listen to what people say.  In the movie Evan is persuaded by Wizard that music can’t be learnt that it has to be lived and Evan goes with Wizard.

Deep down almost everyone wants to be accepted and they want people to understand them. For that to happen people have to actually hear what the person is saying. If more people understood each other then there would be less dangerous misunderstandings. Currently I am trying to be as accepting as possible. That means I have to start hearing what people say.

Actually listening to people is important in understanding them. That’s why I have to improve my listening skills. Also it’s important to relax from time to time and nature is a good place to listen to relaxing sounds and gathering inspiration.